[Audio] CC12 Workshop 15 – Healing Couples From the Betrayal of an Affair – John Gottman, PhD

Description:Description:

The Atone-Attune-Attach model of couples’ therapy for healing from a revealed extra-relationship affair, with secrecy deception is described. Each of the three phases has 4 objectives. The roles of conflict avoidance and self-disclosure avoidance are discussed, as well as the Gottman-Rapoport conflict blueprint. To deal with at-tachment injuries and regrettable past incidents, the Gottman Re-covery Kit is described. The Gottman-Rusbult-Glass cascade forms the basic theory for this therapy. The roles of cherishing and grati-tude versus trashing and betrayal are discussed, as well as the theory of attunement and trust, and CL-ALT and betrayal.The Atone-Attune-Attach model of couples’ therapy for healing from a revealed extra-relationship affair, with secrecy deception is described. Each of the three phases has 4 objectives. The roles of conflict avoidance and self-disclosure avoidance are discussed, as well as the Gottman-Rapoport conflict blueprint. To deal with at-tachment injuries and regrettable past incidents, the Gottman Re-covery Kit is described. The Gottman-Rusbult-Glass cascade forms the basic theory for this therapy. The roles of cherishing and grati-tude versus trashing and betrayal are discussed, as well as the theory of attunement and trust, and CL-ALT and betrayal.

Educational Objectives:Educational Objectives:

1. Participants will be able to describe the role of conflict in trust and betrayal.Participants will be able to describe the role of conflict in trust and betrayal.
2. Participants will be able to describe the role of CL-ALT in the cascade toward betrayal.Participants will be able to describe the role of CL-ALT in the cascade toward betrayal.

*Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality**Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality*